Tuesday, October 21, 2014

Week One

Day One: August 11, 2014

I left my home at 9:30 A.M. on August 11, 2014, to begin a trip halfway around the world and start my exchange year in Thailand.  My flight to New York left Nashville at 11:40 A.M. Central Time, and I arrived at LaGuardia around 3 P.M. Eastern Time.  There was a bit of confusion with the AFS staff who was supposed to meet me and pick me up at the baggage claim, so I ended up sitting with another AFS student going to Switzerland in the airport for a bit.  The staff member finally showed up, and two students and I were put in a cab headed to our gateway orientation site.  We were late, but nothing much had happened.  I got an AFS t-shirt, my handbook, and nametag before being directed to one of the hotel’s conference rooms where 16 students heading to Switzerland, 6 students going to Sweden, and the 5 YES Abroad Thailand scholars were sitting.  We watched a video about the mission and purpose of AFS Intercultural Programs, and then were asked a few quick questions and discussion.
Then it was dinnertime, thankfully!  I enjoyed the food and the company of my four fellow YES students.  I really believe that the YES and YES Abroad community is so special and close, and every orientation and activity I do with them, no matter if it’s going over the SAME MATERIAL I’ve learned from reading blogs or heard a dozen times for returnees, makes me so much more proud to be a part of this extraordinary and unique group of young people. 
From 7-9 P.M. after dinner, the 5 Thailand kids met with Ali, our “cultural resource” who is a YES Abroad Thailand returnee from 2012-2013.  She was FANTASTIC!  It was great to have some genuine Q&A time and get a lot of our pressing questions answered.  Plus, she had such a great, laid-back personality and we could ask anything and receive a lot of advice, which made me feel more at ease and ready for my stay.  When that was done, our chaperone for international travel ran over some logistics for the next day, and then it was bedtime.

The two other Thailand girls, Grace and Sarah, were sharing a room which means I got one all to myself!  I didn’t really know what to do with myself, honestly.  I went to bed around 11 P.M., excited and a little bit anxious for the big day.

Day Two: August 12, 2014

Today was an early day.  We had breakfast at 8 with all the AFS students, and then the Thailand kids were ushered to another conference room where we watched a video given by former President John F. Kennedy to some inbound AFS students in 1963, and then we signed the AFS pledge.  We were also asked to describe our emotions in terms of weather patterns – I said that I felt like a tornado, which got a few laughs.  It was true, though!  After a toast to a successful and rewarding year with sparkling apple cider, and a little present from Ali, we were off to the airport!
By the time we got there and got through security, we only had about an hour until boarding.  I looked at a book called “Humans of New York” in the bookstore, called Mom, and dithered over expensive airport food before deciding not to buy anything.  I’m too cheap.  J  We boarded our giant Boeing 777 to Tokyo at noon.  As I was walking down the jet bridge (which was like half a mile long) I couldn’t stop smiling at the fact that I was ACTUALLY DOING what I have been dreaming and praying about since last fall.  I didn’t have to imagine my adventures anymore; I was actually living them out, and it was a great feeling.  The flight, headed to Tokyo, was not too full, so I was able to change my seat to one by the window.  I was SO EXCITED when we took off.  With the New York skyline in the background, and huge smiles from our whole group, it was the perfect way to begin our international journey.  
It was a day that never ends.  It was sunny for hours and hours, as we kept moving back in time.  We  crossed the International Date Line and it was August 13.  We flew over many exciting places – Hudson Bay, mountains in Canada, and I think the Arctic (Barrow Alaska).  I watched two movies – Harry Potter and the Order of the Phoenix, and Divergent.  
We had two meals on this flight and one "snack."  It was the longest flight I have ever been on and I was very grateful and excited when we finally landed in Tokyo.

Day Three: August 13, 2014

We had several hours before our flight to Bangkok left, so we wandered around Narita looking for food and other things.  There is a mall inside the airport, but everything was very expensive so I didn't buy anything.  I enjoyed strolling after the 13 hours in the plane and before the next 7 hours to Bangkok!  I bought a salad which was pretty expensive but I wanted something fresh after airplane food.  The other exchange students and I had fun sampling the "weird' Kit-Kat flavors such as red bean, cherry blossom, and green tea.  
At 7:30 we boarded the flight to Bangkok.  Despite it being extremely full, I got a window seat again.  What can I say?  I'm skilled.  It was a boring flight, being in the dark and flying over the ocean and rural southeast Asia.  I watched part of another movie and slept some, before we touched down in the rain and storms, in our new home for the next nine months - THAILAND!  
Going through customs was surprisingly easy and stress-free, and then we met our AFS volunteer, P'Nudi and collected our luggage.  Off we went into the (early) morning of the 14th, in a taxi to the hotel.  Despite being tired beyond belief, I couldn't fall asleep in the van.  Just looking at everything which seemed so new, alien, and interesting.  Once we got to the hotel, we all crashed, but only for about 5 hours before we had to get up and spend a busy day in Bangkok!

Day Four: August 14, 2014

We took a van to the US Embassy where we met with two American men who are the security attache of the US Ambassador to Thailand.  The office had a beautiful view of Bangkok, and it was hard to concentrate on what they were saying with the view and my sleep-deprived brain!  
Then our AFS volunteers took us to Sara, a Thai buffet.  We all had a good time sampling the (rather Americanized) Thai food and going back for more of our favorites.
The best part of the day was our visit to the Grand Palace.  It's astonishing, and I can't put it into words.  It's huge and I don't think we saw all of it in the two or three hours we were there, but we certainly saw a lot and took many photos!  We had to take our shoes off to enter the temple of the Emerald Buddha, which is one of the most revered Buddha images in Thailand.  We were also blessed with "holy water" sprinkled on us with a lotus blossom.  Then we went into the Museum of Royal Regalia and national treasures.  
That evening we ate dinner at the hotel and had the beginning session of our orientation with P'Dai and P'Nudi.  Thankfully they saw how tired we were and let us go up to bed early, which we most definitely did!

Day Five: August 15, 2014

All day we had orientation about all aspects of Thai culture, exchange student things, and Thai language, interspersed with coffee breaks and lunch.  The best part was practicing our Thai language and learning the introduction we would give to our advisors the next day when we met them.  Then we played a game where we had to translate basic English sentences to Thai.
The volunteers took us down the road to a street market for dinner.  Despite not being told to eat street food right away and let our bodies adjust, we all got something from the market for dinner.  I got papaya salad, my new favorite dish!  
Grace, Sarah, and I went to our room and chatted, practiced Thai, and prepared for the next day.  We also exercised before finally going to bed.

Day Six: August 16, 2014

We were all extremely nervous this morning, after breakfast and finishing our orientation.  We would have to go pack up before meeting our advisors in a special ceremony on the top floor of the hotel.  
One by one we all walked in and introduced ourselves, and then our advisors came up and placed a flower bracelet or necklace on us and took photos.  They were very easy to talk to, and we all wondered why we'd ever been nervous!  We had lunch together before splitting up to go our separate ways.  It was exciting but also a little sad because we knew we wouldn't see each other for 6 months until the mid-stay orientation in February.  
I was the only student taking a bus, so my advisor and I took a taxi to the bus station.  Riding the bus was extremely uncomfortable due to an old Thai man sitting next to me and constantly tapping me on the arm, attempting to talk to me, or lying down with his head on my backpack.  Fortunately we arrived in Kamphaengphet safely, and I was driven to my host family's home!  

Thursday, June 12, 2014

Business and Late Night Thoughts

Well, the last few weeks and days have been spectacularly busy preparing for my departure and next year in general.
Sunday I went to one of my best friend's dance recitals.  She dedicated one of her dances to me.  :)  It's reasons like this that I will miss my friends so much next year, but I also know I am blessed to have had her and so many others in my life.  Our relationships will change, but will grow stronger.
Monday my mom and I visited a college a few hours away from my house.  We met with two professors in different departments, one of which was International Studies.  After talking with her, I don't know if that's a degree I'd like to pursue, but I'm definitely keeping my options open.
Tuesday I had a doctor appointment to fill out my health form required by AFS.  Thank goodness I did not have to get any more shots.  I already had to get three two last week which was pretty painful and involved me passing out in the parking garage elevator... yeah, real fun.  But it's all worth it for Thailand!
Then my older sister (who is going to college next year) and I had 12 friends over at our house for a going away party/sleepover which was extremely fun!  We ate a whole bag of jelly beans in 10 minutes, went on a walk/run around our neighborhood, and stayed outside until past midnight.  Then some brave few - about seven of us - stayed up late (or early, I guess) in my room talking about everything you could imagine.  I'm not going to share our exact topics because it rambled all over the place but it was an extremely deep, lovely conversation and debate and I don't regret only getting two hours of sleep because every moment spent with these incredible ladies is precious and it was definitely a powerful night.  :)
And then I crashed the next day.
I also have my host family, which is extremely exciting and requires its own post, coming soon!  I have been messaging my host sister and she could not be any sweeter.  I can't wait to meet them!
This post is already very long and I definitely need some photos, so I'll wrap up by saying that I am scared.  Yes, even though I have this incredible opportunity that I may never get again and I finally achieved my dream of being accepted to YES Abroad, I am experiencing feelings of doubt, anxiety, and reluctance to go.  My fears are numerous and mainly trivial, and I've been told that every exchanger goes through a roller coaster of emotions both before and during their exchange.  I'm supposed to be getting lots of sleep every night but I end up reading very late and then lying awake thinking about my exchange and all my worries about it.
Despite this I wouldn't change a thing and I can't wait to be there.  To any future exchange students reading this - know that fear is completely normal and absolutely OK.  Letting it overwhelm you and ruin your enthusiasm and your experience is not.

Sunday, June 1, 2014

Thailand Bucket List!

I love lists.  Check lists, to-do lists, shopping lists, packing lists, lists of my goals and dreams - I have an entire journal dedicated to lists!  So it seems only fitting that I should make a bucket list of my what I want to do and see next year.

1. Be fluent, or at least conversational in Thai.  This could be hard since Thai is a tonal language without a Romanized alphabet, but I will try nonetheless.
2. Complete my senior year so I can walk with the rest of my homeschool class next spring when I get back!
3. Eat some Thai street food (haha, don't tell anyone!)
4. Visit Chiang Mai.  I've heard that that AFS Thailand does a mid-year camp in Chiang Mai, so I want to see the city and the beautiful mountains and temples in it!
5. Visit a Buddhist temple
6. Visit an Islamic mosque.  This may be hard since Thailand's Muslims are mainly in the south and I may not get to go there, but I want to try!
7. Get a traditional Thai massage!  Or, better yet, become certified in Thai massage.
8. Do lots of volunteering in my community, hopefully with children.
9. Go to the beach.  And therefore, swim.
10. Travel in a tuk-tuk, the traditional Thai "taxi."  And not get scammed by my driver!
11. Be on a sports team at school (hopefully soccer!)
12. Participate in Songkran (Thai New Year) festival.
13. Take Muay Thai (Thai Boxing) lessons.
14. Do a project photographing and cataloguing the temples of Thailand.  This is a possible capstone project!
15. Help someone here at home apply for YES Abroad!
16. Touch/ride an elephant.  A girl can dream!
17. Cook American food for my host family.
18. Keep this blog updated!

That's all for now, but it's already kind of long! I might add some things later, but I think that's a good place to start, don't you?

Emily

Saturday, May 31, 2014

32 Days

I have 32 days until I leave for Los Angeles, and I could not be more excited and terrified.  It seems that the closer I get to my departure date, the more events and to-dos pop up on my list, adding to the  stress of preparation that I am feeling.  I have a service project to complete, numerous parties and sleepovers that my friends want me to come to, college visits, packing, visiting our grandparents, and of course the national PDO.  Time is flying by, in sharp contrast to the slow drag of the days when I waited for YES Abroad notifications.
Here are a few updates of what's been going on, with YES Abroad stuff and just my normal life (as normal as it can get right now!). 
I had my first conference call on Monday night.  My parents listened in, and it was great to hear my fellow AFSers on the other end, and hear from the staff about expectations and goals for our year. 
Every time I get an e-mail from YES Abroad, it's another form to sign.  I feel like I've signed my life away about five times!  We have gotten information about the national PDO, which is extremely exciting.  I can't wait to be reunited with my fellow exchange students and talk to the other kids going to Thailand.  I met all but one of them at the IPSE, though we've talked on Facebook and they are all really nice.
I had my in-home visit with a local volunteer a couple weeks ago, and was also officially accepted by AFS-Thailand, which means they are looking for a host family for me and I could get mine very soon!  That's what I'm most excited about right now.  I'm working on making a photo album for them and I want to cook an American meal while I'm there.  (note to self - what makes an "American" meal?)  Greasy and sugary?  Haha
I'll post again soon, this time with my bucket list for Thailand.  34 days until I'm there! 

Monday, May 26, 2014

Incredible IPSE

So if you are hoping to become a YES Abroad student, you will have to attend the IPSE, or In Person Selection Event.  This was one of my favorite parts of the YES Abroad process, and I really think YES has done something right by having an interview event with all the semifinalists together for a weekend.  It really allows you to meet new people and spend time learning about the program and the countries. 
I flew from Nashville to Washington D.C. on a Friday afternoon, and was picked up at the airport by YES Abroad staff and other semifinalists who were in the airport at the same time as me.  We were driven to the 4-H Center in Chevy Chase Maryland, which was like a mini college campus and absolutely gorgeous.  We then listened to a welcome speech given by several YES staff and guests, and then had dinner.  Friday evening was spent hanging out in the game room and various lounges found all over the campus. 
Saturday was the busiest day.  In the morning I participated in a workshop about "My Life as an American," and then had my first group evaluation.  I expected it to be very stressful but it definitely was not!  We did a teamwork-building exercise while being evaluated (and made the best tikara ever.)  Shout out to Sophia and Kenzie who are going to Morocco and Oman! 
Then I had my individual interview.  I really liked both of my interviewers; however, I was definitely very nervous and felt like I could have done better.  I was very glad to have it over with!  The afternoon was filled with more lounging around, talking with new friends, and my second group evaluation.
One of my favorite parts of the weekend was exploring the country tables set up in one of the rooms and talking with staff and volunteers about the countries.  They are adding Macedonia and the Philippines this year!  Sadly we were not allowed to change our choices but could indicate our interest for the new ones.
It was a really fun weekend, and if I had to give one tip to the future YES Abroad students, I would tell them not to stress out about your interview, evaluations, and whatnot!  The staff are really friendly and just want to know more about you.  It is also important to be friendly to everyone there.  Several kids treated their peers like competition, and they did not get selected, but almost everyone was extremely friendly and it's easy to make friends.
Sunday morning we all left for the airport after a closing speech and many sad goodbyes and hugs.  It was hard not knowing if I would ever see any of these amazing, like-minded kids again!  Not only was the IPSE a great way to meet other semifinalists, but also it definitely sharpened my interest in other cultures and religions, and world affairs. 
Kenzie, Sophia, and Daniel (Oman, Morocco, and Bosnia)
The amazing 4-H Center!
Brandi and I (Oman and Thailand)
Sign in the lobby
A group of us in the lobby before leaving Sunday morning.  From left to right - Priya (Turkey), Jacqueline (standing), Katherine (Ghana), Emily (Macedonia), me, Carson-Keeley, Thomas, and Madison (Indonesia)
Tonery (Malaysia) and I in the airport for 4 hours on Sunday

Saturday, May 17, 2014

Introduction

Hi and welcome to my blog! 

My name is Emily, and I am a junior in high school.  I found out about three weeks ago that I have been selected by the Kennedy-Lugar YES Abroad program to spend a year in Thailand.  Thailand was my first choice country, and I am extremely happy that I have been given this opportunity.  I have never even left the United States before, so I know that this experience will be challenging.  However, I'm ready to face the challenges of being a youth ambassador and exchange student in a completely foreign environment.
To explain how I got here... last fall I filled out an application for this scholarship, which involved essays, teacher recommendations, transcripts, and a letter to my future host family.  I was hopeful but not very confident as I submitted my application.  However, about two months later I found out that I was a semifinalist and headed to Chevy Chase, Maryland for an In Person Selection Event. 
The event, known as the IPSE, was one of the best experiences I have had this year.  I got to meet 119 other like-minded teenagers who were all passionate about changing their world through a program like YES Abroad.  Oh, and of course I had an interview there!
About a month after that, I was informed that I would be spending my senior year in Thailand after having been anxiously waiting in alternate status for two weeks. 
I created this blog to share my experiences with my friends, family, and those interested in Thailand or the Youth Exchange and Study program.  I'm thrilled to start my life in Thailand in a little less than two months, and soon I'll post more information about the YES Abroad program. 

ลาก่อน,
Emily